July is the Contessa’s Birthday Month!!

IT’S MY BIRTHDAY MONTH!! June + Pride month was amazing, I felt pretty spoiled! I was able to try and experiment with several things on my kinky wishlist, executed epic duos with Mistress Isobel http://www.mistressisobel.com/ , get some fun filming in,  try new things, and had plenty of treats and time outdoors. Slave contract reviews went really well and plans for new surprises and adventures are […] Read More

Slave Contract Checkpoints: Midsummer

I have space to negotiate two more slave contracts that involve weekly/ monthly interactions (tasks, goals, guidance, meetings, mailouts). This sort of arrangement or slave contract involves regular check-ins or “checkpoints” throughout the year, the next of which is approaching June 20th. I use these times for starting new slave contracts as well as checking in on existing arrangements for health + safety. They’re also great […] Read More

Duo Domination with Mistress Isobel: June 21- 25th

We’re offering duo domination scenes using a wide range of our creativities and sadistic desires during Pride weekend June 21-25th 2018!!    With ___Duo Domination__ sessions we enjoy things such as sissification, pain training, predicament bondage, medical play, slapping, spitting, dunking, corporal (school theme/ traditional/ found objects), anal dilation, CBT, wax, soaping, taunting, puppy play, spit roasting, breathplay, golden, slut training, pantyhose encasement, assgasm harvesting, sensory deprivation, […] Read More

What’s with NiteFlirt?

I finally started hopping on Niteflirt more often. It’s a website that sets up phone calls and handles payments as well, been a great way to not have direct phone calls in our call logs. 🙂 There’s a section for dropping short messages or questions to me, paid email exchanges, but the focus is on phone calls and I’m glad for it!  I’m especially excited to […] Read More

SexCityRadio Episode: Unique Faces of Feminine Power

Well hey there, did you know I was on the radio? The summary: “Think every dominatrix is a cruel bitch in a catsuit with a whip? Headmistress Shahrazad welcomes three fabulous Toronto-based Pro Dominatrices who each have very different approaches to Female Dominance (Femdom). Mistress Lilith Haze, Contessa Zoe Aspasia, and Mistress Red Diamond are in the studio to talk about the many unique faces of feminine power through candid sharing of […] Read More

Mayday Femdom Fantasies

For every May day I’ll be “tweeting” a unique femdom fantasy of mine, something I’ve done, have yet to do, or is still in the works of planning.  Doing this in honour of Beltane, as I’m often dabble in witchcraft and witchy things especially around the sabbats/ wheel of the year. What is Beltane (sometimes) Mayday you may ask? In short a pagan hedonistic holiday with hole […] Read More

Triple Domina ShootFest in Toronto: May 10th

I’m shooting together with Sadistic Miss Xi https://www.missxi.ca and Lady Shayne http://ladyshayne.com/ on a Thursday from 1-9pm! We have space for a few new film slaves to join us at vary levels to create content especially looking to film: -Ballbusting -CBT -Corporal -Leg Scissors/ Scissoring -Trampling You don’t have to go in hard from the jump, if you want to, you’ll references or to see one […] Read More

Spring Print Sale!

Your altar needs some updated photos of the Gonzo Goddess to inspire you to play every day and serve. Autographs/ personalization optional. Get your requests in now. First shipment out next Monday, the second in early May.  The second wave of printing can include older classic shots you may have missed out on, including “Aiden” touring photos, as well as other sizes of prints. I accept a […] Read More

Spring Kink 2018

This winter has been full of hard work, lots of learning/ courses/ workshops and trying new things. Spring calls for tackling my to-read list, making more time for practicing the things I want to learn especially with the weather warming up. That being said, I’ve been having some hankerings, come in and be “used”, receive your life experience, take a little trip out of the norm. […] Read More

Winter Kink 2018

This time of year is most often used for Slave Contract reviews and new beginnings, revisiting kinky goals, dedication and rededication ceremonies, setting up new habits for worship. I’m enjoying the negotiations with open-minded newbs looking to enter “short term study” under my care. I tend to have seasonal cravings in waves: the special themes below relate to the perversions running through my head as of […] Read More