Domme Addiction Interview

Have a read of a recent interview about me as told through the Femdom/ Findom community! Learn a bit more about what goes on in my creative brain, ūüôā Click the link below for the full interview! Feature Interview – Contessa Zoe Aspasia

New Monthly Slave Contracts: Online Training

I have several ongoing arrangements with subs that are renewed monthly with ongoing kinky goals or strict restrictions and fantasy verbalizations. I’ve freed up a bit more time over the last year to add at least 2 more arrangements of ongoing training with select awesome individuals who have submitted to me before or are seeking online training. I’ve introduced a short term contract with a bit […] Read More

Winter Panty Special

From now until Easter (April 21st)¬†I‚Äôll have this doubly pleasing special offer for new and returning panty fans, to¬† worship, appreciate + play with My scent while I add a few nice new things to My closet. I started panty-slinging on Craigslist in 2007 and a lot has changed since then, and I have so many other projects on the go that I’m retiring my panty […] Read More

July is the Contessa’s Birthday Month!!

IT’S MY BIRTHDAY MONTH!! June + Pride month was amazing, I felt pretty spoiled! I was able to try and experiment with several things on my kinky wishlist, executed epic duos with Mistress Isobel , get some fun filming in,¬† try new things, and had plenty of treats and time outdoors. Slave contract reviews went really well and plans for new surprises and adventures are […] Read More

Slave Contract Checkpoints: Midsummer

I have space to negotiate two more slave contracts that involve weekly/ monthly interactions (tasks, goals, guidance, meetings, mailouts). This sort of arrangement or slave contract involves regular check-ins or “checkpoints” throughout the year, the next of which is approaching June 20th. I use these times for starting new slave contracts as well as checking in on existing arrangements for health + safety. They’re also great […] Read More

Duo Domination with Mistress Isobel: June 21- 25th

We’re offering duo domination scenes using a wide range of our creativities and sadistic desires during Pride weekend June 21-25th 2018!!¬†   With ___Duo Domination__¬†sessions we enjoy things such as sissification, pain training, predicament bondage, medical play, slapping, spitting, dunking, corporal (school theme/ traditional/ found objects), anal dilation, CBT, wax, soaping, taunting, puppy play, spit roasting, breathplay, golden, slut training, pantyhose encasement, assgasm harvesting, sensory deprivation, […] Read More

What’s with NiteFlirt?

I finally started hopping on Niteflirt more often. It’s a website that sets up phone calls and handles payments as well, been a great way to not have direct phone calls in our call logs. ūüôā There’s a section for dropping short messages or questions to me, paid email exchanges, but the focus is on phone calls and I’m glad for it!¬† I’m especially excited to […] Read More

SexCityRadio Episode: Unique Faces of Feminine Power

Well hey there, did you know I was on the radio? The summary: “Think every dominatrix is a cruel bitch in a catsuit with a whip?¬†Headmistress Shahrazad¬†welcomes three fabulous Toronto-based Pro Dominatrices who each have very different approaches to Female Dominance (Femdom).¬†Mistress Lilith Haze,¬†Contessa Zoe Aspasia, and¬†Mistress Red Diamond¬†are in the studio to talk about the many unique faces of feminine power through candid sharing of […] Read More

Mayday Femdom Fantasies

For every May day I’ll be “tweeting” a unique femdom fantasy of mine, something I’ve done, have yet to do, or is still in the works of planning.¬† Doing this in honour of Beltane, as I’m often dabble in witchcraft and witchy things especially around the sabbats/ wheel of the year. What is Beltane¬†(sometimes) Mayday you may ask? In short a pagan hedonistic holiday with hole […] Read More

Triple Domina ShootFest in Toronto: May 10th

I’m shooting together with Sadistic Miss Xi and Lady Shayne on a Thursday from 1-9pm! We have space for a few new film slaves to join us at vary levels to create content especially looking to film: -Ballbusting -CBT -Corporal -Leg Scissors/ Scissoring -Trampling You don’t have to go in hard from the jump, if you want to, you’ll references or to see one […] Read More

Spring Print Sale!

Your altar needs some updated photos of the Gonzo Goddess to inspire you to play every day and serve. Autographs/ personalization optional. Get your requests in now. First shipment out next Monday, the second in early May.¬† The second wave of printing can include older classic shots you may have missed out on, including “Aiden” touring photos, as well as other sizes of prints.¬†I accept a […] Read More

Spring Kink 2018

This winter has been full of hard work, lots of learning/ courses/ workshops and trying new things. Spring calls for tackling my to-read list, making more time for practicing the things I want to learn especially with the weather warming up. That being said, I’ve been having some hankerings, come in and be “used”, receive your life experience, take a little trip out of the norm. […] Read More